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Social networking sites: see 10 tips for getting along safely

The Internet is full of dating sites aimed at the public looking for love: ParPerfeito, Badoo, Tinder, and even Facebook. To know the ideal person in a safe way, it is necessary to take some precautions online. Check out Par Perfeito's tips and see if you're in line.


1) No fakes, real photos


The first thing to do is create an interesting profile. A profile with photos is 15 times more viewed. When choosing, prefer the current ones that truly show who you are, no fakes. Another important tip when creating an account on social networking sites is to use creativity and good humor in your description. This draws attention from future suitors. Also, the more information you put in, the easier it will be to find people who are close to you.


2) write well


It is important to be careful with mistakes in Portuguese and grammar. “It sounds silly and even obvious, but it's true. Making grammatical and/or spelling mistakes is bad in the eyes of those who read”, comments Deneneffe, an executive at the ParPerfeito website. You may visit for dating in Kenya Single Searching in Kenya


According to a poll carried out with 35,000 users of the online dating network, 60% think that writing and speaking wrongly is the most demotivating factor in the first contact with a potential partner. Therefore, try to review all the messages you write before sending them and consult the dictionary whenever there is any doubt about the correct spelling of a word.


Also, use the all-too-common Internet word abbreviations sparingly. Not everyone understands certain abbreviated terms.


3) Research about your crush


The Internet is not the safest place in the world to meet someone. However, it offers us excellent tools to get to know different people better: do a search on search engines about a suitor, enter the profiles she has on other social networks to confirm information such as place of work and/or study, who are the friends and etc.


4) Movement and action


Don't expect only others to initiate a conversation. Search profiles that you like and get in touch.


5) Be patient


Sent a message? Be patient and wait a few hours before charging back, as not everyone is 100% connected at all times. Sending multiple messages or persistently demanding a response can show insecurity and drive away your suitors.


6) Don't be too formal 


Formality and flirting are not two things that go together so well. The ideal is to transform the exchange of messages into something relaxed.


7) Stay focused


During the conversation show exactly what you are looking for. Staying focused and objective are great strategies for getting to know someone who really interests you and saves you time.


8) Give it time


Don't judge right away. First impressions may not always be right.


9) Distance can be positive


Don't give up on someone who lives in another city. Don't waste chances and bet on long-distance relationships. They can be fun and provide you with opportunities to travel.


10) Are you going to make appointments? Heads up


When making a date with a date you have been talking to, choose public places such as shopping malls, coffee shops, or restaurants. Make an appointment only when you get to know the person better.